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Lucy Dias Ramos
(photo)
comes from a
Spiritist family
in the Brazilian
state of Minas
Gerais. Lucy has
worked for many
decades at a
Spiritist Centre
in the city of
Juiz de Fora. In
her private
life, Lucy had
to face the
challenge of her
daughter
Sandra’s
discarnation. In
her latest book,
she describes
the experience
and talks about
the messages
received from
her daughter.
Tell us about
your latest book
and the personal
experience
behind it.
My latest book,
Maior que a
Vida,
published by the
Brazilian
Spiritist
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Federation, is a
narrative of my
experience next
to Sandra, my
eldest daughter,
a medical doctor
who fought
cancer for five
years. As we
were both
Spiritists, we
went through
this very
painful
experience with
resignation and
a certain degree
of tranquillity.
We used all the
tools the
Spiritist
Doctrine makes
available. We
used to read
together, to
pray in order to
face this
painful
transition
process with
courage and
confidence in
God. I kept a
diary, making
notes at the end
of every day
about what we’d
gone through.
The diary was
the basis for
the book just
published. |
Waldenir
Aparecido Cuin
(photo),
from the city of
Cosmorama, in
the state of São
Paulo, has a
long history as
a Spiritist
worker. He is
linked to two
Spiritist groups
and is a regular
contributor of
this electronic
magazine.
Waldenir, a
civil servant
with a degree in
Business
Administration,
lives in the
city of
Votuporanga. He
has published
eight Spiritist
books since
1993, bringing
lessons from the
Gospel to our
daily life. His
answers to our
questions in
this interview
bring us comfort
and remind us of
the
responsibility
we all have in
this life:
How did you
become a
Spiritist?
I’ve been a
Spiritist since
1971. I found
Spiritism for a
number of
reasons: some
setbacks in my
youth, some
frustrated
dreams, the
search for
answers. I
eventually found
the guidance of
a cousin of
mine, who lived
in the city of
Uberaba and said
that Spiritism
had the answer
to all my
questions. I
found then many
of the answers
and soon after,
in 1972, joined
the Spiritist
Centre Humberto
de Campos. I
joined the youth
movement and
have never
looked back.
Your literary
production is
rich; it also
gives us a great
deal of comfort.
How do you get
the inspiration,
how is the
process of
writing for
you?
My aim has been
to write about
our daily
matters. The
lessons of Jesus
Christ are quite
simple, but
difficult to
demonstrate
through
examples. I
have attempted
to convey the
idea that we
should try to do
what we can
realistically
achieve. Jesus
doesn’t expect
us to be saints,
nor to display
the pure
feelings of the
highest quality,
which we are
still unable to
produce. But he
expects us at
least to try, to
put in the
effort, the good
will, our
effort, the
determination so
we can pave the
way for our
spiritual
progress.
Where does the
motivation to
write come
from?
Our motivation
comes from
knowing that we
can live the
valuable
teachings of
Jesus here on
Earth, even if
we have to face
huge challenges.
We wouldn’t be
here, as
incarnates,
unless we were
able to learn
from our
day-to-day
experiences the
lessons for our
spiritual
development and
growth. Jesus is
in reality our
biggest
motivation.
Was it
particularly
difficult to
write the first
book? What was
the impact of
the other titles
you published
later?
The beginning is
indeed always
difficult. I
began by writing
articles for
newspapers in
the city of
Votuporanga.
Later I had the
idea of
organising a
book with the
best published
articles. A
friend of mine,
Júlio Venâncio
Júnior, bought
the idea and
encouraged me.
He published the
first book,
Caminhos de
Esperança (Paths
of Hope),
which for my
absolute
surprise sold
nearly 10,000
copies – with
the support, of
course, of many
Spiritist book
clubs.
Eventually, a
bigger
publishing
house, EME,
began publishing
my books.
What is in your
view the most
significant
aspect of the
Spiritist
Doctrine?
Two aspects in
my opinion: the
enlightenment,
allowing us to
know the truth
so we can find
true freedom;
and the comfort
it provides,
which makes us
strong enough to
follow the
difficult paths
of life without
fear. To know
and to
understand, that
is the basis of
prosperity.
How do you think
young people
today connect to
the Spiritist
Doctrine?
Young people are
a reflexion of
the examples,
teachings and
information
provided by
adults. We have
indeed many
problems with
our “young ones”
and that is
mostly due to
the lack of
proper action by
the parents.
Family values
these days tend
to be based on
“being someone”
and “having
things”. Very
few parents
bother to teach
their children
the Gospel, to
spiritualise
them in this
material world
we live in,
hence the lack
of interest by
young people
have in
spiritual
values. Due to
the lack of
information and
appropriate
background,
young people
tend abandon
spiritual values
all together.
They prefer the
easier paths of
indifference,
which have taken
so many to the
valleys of tears
and mountains of
pain. When
Spiritist
familys begin to
make a concerted
effort to focus
on the real
values of life,
the whole family
will join a
Spiritist
Centre. Younger
family members
will then find a
reference and
good examples to
follow.
Self help and
motivational
books are of
great relevance
in our days.
What reaction do
you get from the
public?
We, human
beings, find it
very difficult
to incorporate
changes into our
routine. I have
seen in the
lectures I give
that even those
who have read my
books and have
made a vow to
change tend to
eventually go
back to their
old ways. But
short-term
results are not
what matters. It
is important to
carry on trying
to build a
better world,
with the
assistance of
the Spiritual
Benefactors.
Jesus Christ
left us 2,000
years ago the
best treaty on
motivation and
self-help the
world has ever
seen: The
Gospel. And yet
we are still
embroiled in the
debate: should
we accept it or
ignore it? It is
important to
carry on working
and to allow
time to do play
its part.
Anything else
you would like
to add?
Let us pay much
attention to how
we are employing
the “talents” we
have been given.
There are many
people out there
who are every
day burying
their
opportunities to
achieve
spiritual
progress. There
have never been
so many
distractions and
opportunities to
divert us from
the right path.
We find all the
time in the
world dedicate
to our body, our
physical health,
but don’t seem
to find any time
to deal with
spiritual
matters. If we
carry on like
that, we will
gather an
endless amount
of painful
experiences,
anxieties and
afflictions,
which will
generate
depression and a
number of other
illnesses of
mental and
psychological
origin. Either
we live the
teachings of
Jesus or we
simply won’t be
able to live.
Your final
thoughts…
Let us never
forget that we
will get back
from life
whatever we
throw at it.
Thus, even for
reasons of
intelligence and
common sense, we
must do good
deeds, to live a
life of goodness
and think
according the
principles of
goodness.